Lady Rev. Dr. Nana Yaa Premeh, in a thoughtful commentary on the rising divorce rates, encourages women to consider an aspect often overlooked: assessing their partner’s penis size before marriage.
Speaking from her own experiences, she emphasizes that misconceptions about size and sexual performance contribute to marital dissatisfaction and separations.
During a discussion on the GTV breakfast show about the reasons behind the increasing divorce rates, Lady Rev. Dr. Nana Yaa Premeh advises women against making assumptions based on their partner’s physical stature. She cautions against the belief that a tall or thick man automatically implies a certain size or quality of the male organ.
“I want to caution the women who think when you find a thick tall man it means that he has a strong, heavy and nice d*ck. No, if you see a thick tall man, because he’s thick tall you size it that as for this man his penis will be nice and enjoyable, you’re lying to yourself. Don’t be deceived,” she said.
In her frank expression of views, she advocates for a more proactive approach, stating that women should not shy away from inspecting and ensuring their partner’s genitalia is in good working order. This includes seeing, holding, and feeling it. This, she believes, can be a preventive measure against potential dissatisfaction and divorce in the future.
“I am one of the women of God who thinks that before you marry a man you must see his penis. You must see it, you must hold it, you must feel it and make sure it’s working,” she added.
The discussion takes an intriguing turn when the host, Valerie, reacts with discomfort. Lady Rev. Dr. Nana Yaa Premeh questions this discomfort and shares examples of women who faced unexpected surprises on their wedding night, illustrating the need for transparency before marriage.
“I have seen women who go for honeymoon and the night of the honeymoon one of the women run and left her shoes because what she saw was too much for her to handle , my God,” she said throwing her hands on her head hysterically.
“She can’t take it,”she continued.
Despite her bold stance on this matter, Lady Rev. Dr. Nana Yaa Premeh clarifies that advocating for the inspection of a partner’s genitalia does not imply endorsing premarital sex. She firmly states that the intention is to save individuals from future marital issues and divorces. Drawing from her own experiences, she emphasizes the importance of making informed decisions to ensure a harmonious marriage.
“I never said have sex.” When asked if touching the penis would not arouse the man and lead him into doing anything untoward, she answered “arouse what? It’ll save you from divorce. So, you have to choose, do you want to bury something you don’t want, you don’t like, you don’t know and then the next week you divorce? And I’m talking from experience.”
While acknowledging that it might be a sensitive topic, she contrasts it with what she perceives as a simpler understanding of a man’s anatomy. She suggests that dealing with a woman is more straightforward.
“It’s just a hole…the best thing you can do with a woman is educate her on how you want your sex,” she stated.
